a person contains multitudes

a person contains multitudes

and temporalities

and neither we can prevent it,

nor change it

for the person has a sovereignty to do it 

but can we normalise it?

that's another thing

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for years,

whenever i love someone

i have taken a blame

that i might lack something

if someone cannot love us

so dearly 

like we love them 

but i know a person contains multitudes

and no matter how good we are

great we are

affectionate we are

it won't change anything

except the person

decides to do so

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so it is not our job

to clean the remnants

and ruination

of the past 

in a person.

that person should be brave

to fully aware what kind of things left

neatly put it as a form

that he or she might not reminisce again

for they have committed

with another person 

-

for years 

women have been told to wait

and to have patience

and to have strength

and to have resilience

to wait until someone is ready to love her

and along the way, the women should give undivided affection like there's nothing happened?

but what if we reverse the narrative?

what if, we are given a chance to be loved by someone who are fully ready to be onboard with us, so the patience, the strength, the resilience, the affection, will be spent to face the present and future challenges? not the past? 

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a person contains multitudes

the difference is to not let the multitudes divide them as an incomplete, unloving, unfair human being

i cannot stop thinking the meaning of the songs that are not even dedicated to me. 

maybe love is not enough.